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A & A domestic recruitment
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FAMILY INFORMATIONTYPES OF AU PAIR AND THEIR DUTIESWe realise that each family's requirements differ and therefore we are pleased to be able to offer you a choice: (Please note that most families do pay above the minimum Government regulations). The following rates apply to live-in positions.
Both the family and Au Pair should have a flexible attitude as this ensures a successful relationship between both parties. Au Pairs appreciate having free time over the weekend when possible. Extra duties should be discussed in advance and compensated for. OUR SERVICE
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HOW TO APPLY FOR ONE OF OUR AU PAIRS
AGENCY FEESPlease make sure that you read and accept our terms and conditions before you accept our service.
Should you choose to extend the period your au pair stays with your family
from the original agreement - with agreement on both sides, a fee of £200
will be levied for the extension. THE WAY TO SUCCESSWhen the Au Pair arrives give her a little time to settle in and become used to her new environment. Talk to her! It is important for her to have the chance to communicate and learn English. Be patient and don’t forget that she is a long way from home. Everything will be new to her including your culture, your food, your home appliances, and even the way that you bring up your own children. She will need to feel welcomed into your home and your family. Treat the Au Pair as you would the daughter of a friend from overseas, visiting your family; and remember that respect and understanding is a two-way thing for all relationships to work. Let the Au Pair know from the start what is expected of her. Write down a list of duties, daily and weekly so that she knows what to do and doesn’t have to guess. Let her know whether any room or equipment is out of bounds. Let her know your telephone rules, whether or not she is allowed to make short, local calls, and if there are certain times that she should not receive calls. Will she be allowed to have her friends over to the house, and will there be any rules on coming home at night? Most importantly, give her a list of emergency telephone numbers, including your work number and G.P.. The first four weeks will be regarded as a learning time for the Au Pair and a trial period for both parties. We recommend that at the end of this period, the family and the Au Pair make time to discuss how things are progressing. This gives both parties a chance to talk over any problems or difficulties which have arisen, most of which can be mutually worked out. Remember that most girls are here to learn English and that some girls will arrive to England with a better knowledge than others. Should your Au Pair not speak English as well as you had hoped then we ask that you try and be patient as she might just need some time to get used to hearing English spoken by a native speaker (her English teacher in her home country was probably not English) and she will probably start to pick up the language very quickly. Speak slowly and clearly to ensure understanding (writing things down also helps!). Your patience at the beginning is greatly appreciated by your Au Pair (and this Agency!) and she is bound to show you her gratitude in many ways during her stay with your family. Communication is very important between you and should be encouraged. Always be patient if your Au Pair is trying to tell you something that she is having a problem with, as it has probably taken a lot of courage to discuss it with you and she will be nervous. If this should prove to be something that might create a problem, please give her credit for being honest with you and deal with it in a thoughtful and sensible manner. Working hours are the hours when the Au Pair has to be available to the family, whether it is playing with the children, doing some light housework, or just general help, it is all considered as ‘working’ hours. Free time for an Au Pair is very important. Please respect her free time and understand that after she has finished her work she might want to go out (to school or to meet with friends), or just to go to her room to relax, maybe write a letter, or read. A family should not expect the Au Pair to always be around to help if she has finished her work. We also recommend that you are as flexible as possible regarding the times that your Au Pair must be back at home if she goes out for the evening, especially during the weekends (her free days). Au Pairs will want to go out and have some fun while they are here in England (after all, they are still young!), it should not only be work and studying for them. Our aim is to make sure that you are happy with your Au Pair for as long as possible, and that she is happy to stay with your family for the full duration of her stay in England. If you would like any advice please telephone the office. As long as the Au Pair knows that she is not on holiday, and that the family know that they are not hiring a domestic, this is an excellent programme that should end with good memories for all, and possibly a lifetime friendship. |
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